This Nigga Done Done It Again…For The Last Time.

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Posted Aug 16, 2010 by Freshhh in All Articles
Well, I don’t even know where to start with this one. Let me make this as short and sweet as possible (it might help if you refer to the last couple of posts to get a slight grasp on where I stand with the person I am about to discuss):

So, since we last met, there have been a few new crucial developments concerning the aforementioned nigga, a real STAND UP guy (pun intended- see my last post). Since I got ditched for dinner, homie once again left town and, as always, claimed we would “link up” sometime when he returned. Not believing this, I promptly returned the $200 birthday gift (and threw out the birthday card I filled with nice things I had to say about him) I had bought for him and wrote off seeing him ever again on that kind of level. Of course, another week and a half elapsed and when he got back, I was surprised when he hit me up and attempted to maybe set something up for Sunday. I thought to myself “this is great. I do not work until 10pm, hopefully we can hang out during the day and catch up”. Well Sunday came and went. Of course I went on with my day and did not hit him up. Why would I? He reached out to make a plan, so here I am waiting to hear from him. Nothing. Anyway, not thinking anything of it (since this is ALWAYS what happens with him) I go to work, am having a great night, and who shows up?! Ugh. Of course.  So I purposely avoid him for the first 20 minutes he is in the building. Making sure to not read any BBMs he sends or cross paths with him because I knew he would try to be on some cute-sy shit with me. I really have just had it with him and was not in the mood to play games. When I finally saw him, I made a joke about how GREAT it was hanging out with him earlier (of course sarcastic as shit since we did not hang out and I didn’t even hear from him) and he made a confused face and had the NERVE to say “why didn’t you hit me up?”….REALLY NIGGA?! Why didn’t I hit YOU up?! Get the fuck outta here. *rolls eyes*

Oh…it gets worse. So as the night goes on, I overhear this girl at his table introduce him as her BOYFRIEND. *scratches record* HOLD UP! Did I hear this correctly?! GIRLFRIEND?! THIS NIGGA HAS A GIRLFRIEND?! *laughs to self* hilarious. No really, HILARIOUS. What the fuck is up with that? Ok, so perhaps this explains him essentially avoiding any contact with me. Ok, cool. And you know what the funny thing is….I wasn’t even mad or upset. I was just glad there was finally an explanation for all of this.  Although I have been over it for weeks (after not seeing him for so long, any spark I thought was there was completely muffled), I couldn’t help but think about all the little trips and “dinner with mom” bullshit and how he was probably with THIS chick (silly me for actually believing him and giving him the benefit of the doubt). That shit just IRKED me. All this time I was always thinking about where he was and how his trips were going and he was probably on this trip fucking shawty. Gross.  SMH. Now, of course I should have probably asked him about this before jumping to conclusions, but to be honest, I don’t really care (partially because I don’t even need to know—I never wanted to wife him up, just had an interest in him, that’s all. No biggie.). Yes, it is possible that they are not officially an item, but as a female, I would NEVER introduce a man as my BOYFRIEND unless he was. Niggas don’t like labels, and if she’s comfortable enough to label him, I am sure the odds of it being true are pretty good. Of course him leaving with her at the end of the night pretty much confirmed any suspicions.

At the end of the day, I don’t care, I am not mad, I am not upset, I just hate being left with egg on my face.  Why couldn’t he just KEEP IT A HUNDRED? Like damn, WTF did he think I would do when I found out? Go crazy? Be heartbroken? Nah nigga, you ain’t got power over me like that. I just wish I knew what was going on.  I get so frustrated every time I think about how I moved him from the “he’s just dick” category to the “well, maybe I could let the guard down and kick it with him” category (which I only did based on how HE came at me at first.). Fortunately enough for me, I’ve been seeing someone (and in some cases, a couple of people) even better than him and this news doesn’t really fuck me up too much (especially since I beat the 30 days in which Nordstrom gave me to return his birthday gift for the full cash value! Ha.).

ANYWAY…lesson learned. On to the next. Of course, I wish him all the best. Being a spiteful bitch is NOT a good look for me. 🙂


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