Is Chivalry Dead??
I found this article very interesting…. below are some excerpts:
“Being gentlemanly, to me, is more about genuinely acting with respect for a woman because of who she is and what she means to you, not just treating her a certain way because she is “some woman you are trying to impress.” What would really impress me is if you treat me with actual, genuine respect because you do actually, genuinely respect me.”
“None of that means, though, that I don’t wish men who claim to be “gentlemen” listened to me about this: are you really a gentleman who treats women with genuine respect or are you just performing like one? Are you actually making the women you date feel uncomfortable or disrespected, even though you think you’re “gentlemanly duty” has been done (so to speak) because you paid for dinner?”