Dating

G.A.M.E.S: Games Always Mean Extra Stress

GAME \ˈgām\ noun:  A competitive activity played by two or more persons according to a set of rules, usually for their own amusement or for that of spectators, decided by skill, strength, or luck Games, as fun and exhilara...



40 Days, 40 Habits You Should Break; Day #36: Chasing Those Who Don’t Want To Be Caught

Bad Habit #36: Chasing After Those Who Don’t Want To Be Caught When beginning a new relationship, it’s no secret that half of our attraction to someone comes from the thrill of the chase.  Experiencing someone who is playi...



Men: Wanna Date Us? Hope You Went To College…

FINALLY… the one thing my best friend and I have been waiting on forever: a dating site that requires all male members be verified as grads of top universities.  On the new dating site, Sparkology, the list of acceptable sc...



Make Cuffing Season Work For You

Another home-run by @8plus9… via Black Girls Are Easy:   I was recently talking to someone who thought Cuffing Season was a joke, a funny saying that wasn’t actually practiced. The idea of  shacking up for the win...



The Dating Game: 7 Ways to WIN!

Let’s face it: when dating, as much as we all hate to admit it, we play games.. a lot of them. We have been trained to wait a designated amount of time before returning a call or text, pretend to be busier than we are, an...



Women Look For Men With Money… For Different Reasons Than You’d Think…

Today I was talking to one of my male friends about the women he attracts and he was trying to convince me that women are only attracted to him for the “perks” that come along with being his main squeeze. Of all the perks a...



Sex On The First Date? You May Want To Wait 30 Days…

              Historically, sex on the first date should be a no-no if your goal is to develop a full-on dating relationship.  We have all heard the saying “why buy the cow if you can get t...



8 Reasons Why Women Put Up With A Man’s Bullshit

Whether I am analyzing the relationships my friends and I have with men or those I see on tv and in the movies, I have come to the conclusion that women put up with a lot of shit from men. In fact, too much shit from men.  Ran...



“Come Over & Chill”…

Today, I read a very interesting, albeit long, blog post that I didn’t even know was written by a man until I got to the end where he identified himself as such. I was floored at how accurate he described a situation many wom...



Women & Their “Rules”?

Men kill me. This weekend, my best friend and I were visiting some friends in New York City and we, as usual, got into a heated debate with a male friend who claimed that women make up their own “rules” about relationships ...